I’m Behan. In 2008, my family went through a radical lifestyle change. We sold most of our belongings, moved onto our boat, and sailed away from home. With a deep commitment to sustainable living and a desire to live life to the fullest, we’ve been slowly traveling afloat since 2008.
We hope to encourage anyone thinking of taking the leap to live a differently by sharing a slice of the cruising life through inspiring stories, practical tips, and destination information. If you’re new, these posts will help you get oriented. If you have questions, get in touch with us through Ask the Cruiser!
Cost of cruising | Choosing a boat | Downsizing | What do you need? | Passage making | Homeschooling | Safety | Staying healthy | Provisioning | Transitioning into cruising | Everyday life | Local culture
Cost of cruising
We hear this question a lot, and the simplest answer is that cruising costs whatever you have. People travel on all manner of budgets, from micro to macro. Of course, it does take money.
- You don’t have to be rich to go cruising.
- How much does maintenance cost?
- How costs affect our plans
Choosing a boat
There is no perfect cruising boat. We do not take any stand in the mono vs multi camp: a good boat is the one that meets your needs, carries you safely, fits your budget, and makes you happy.
- Choosing Totem
- A racier take on the cruising boats
- Burmese teak beauty: the more traditional Kalalau
Downsizing
Living afloat is minimalist living, and truly liberating. The less we have, the lighter we feel, the happier we are.
- Focus on what you actually need to getting off the dock
- How cruising gets you off the cycle of acquisition
- On Black Friday: how cruising changes your perspective on Stuff
- The unspoken code to help your fellow cruiser make it easier
Cost of cruising | Choosing a boat | Downsizing | What do you need? | Passage making | Homeschooling | Safety | Staying healthy | Provisioning | Transitioning into cruising | Everyday life |Local culture
What do you need?
You need less than you think. With limited living space and a goal to live simply, we are well trained to think of Stuff as the enemy. That said, your new boat won’t come with everything, and while you have time (and an income), sourcing in advance by trolling eBay and Craigslist so you minimize paying retail at the last minute. The hard part, though, is knowing what you really need vs succumbing to something shiny.
- Start with books
- Don’t forget field guides
- Consider personal gear
- Water toys are fun
- Not more Stuff
- You do need inspiration: our giant map of dreams

Staying inspired before cruising with our Giant Map of Dreams
Passage making
We sailed thousands of miles in the inland waters of the Salish Sea, then coastally as a family before taking off on our first major passage: nearly 3,000 miles from La Cruz, Mexico to Hiva Oa, in French Polynesia’s Marquesa islands. Each step along the way has taught us more.
- Passage Safety: Boat handling and communications, dealing with fatigue, and other notes on safety underway
- South Pacific bound: a semi-typical passage day
- Reflections on crossing from Mexico to the Marquesas
- Hindsight thought on prepping for a Pacific crossing
- Passagemaking questions from readers: Part I, and Part II
Cost of cruising | Choosing a boat | Downsizing | What do you need? | Passage making | Homeschooling | Safety | Staying healthy | Provisioning | Transitioning into cruising | Everyday life | Local culture
Homeschooling
I worried about this. I worried a LOT. I wish I could tell my pre-cruiser self to worry less! Hopefully my hindsight perspective will help others find their homeschooling legs more easily.
Safety
There are different ways to evaluate safety as a cruiser. We’re most often asked about pirates, although it’s very, very, VERY low on our likely risk scale.
Cost of cruising | Choosing a boat | Downsizing | What do you need? | Passage making | Homeschooling | Safety | Staying healthy | Provisioning | Transitioning into cruising | Everyday life | Local culture
Staying healthy
- Getting medical care in a foreign country
- Managing seasickness
- Sun protection for pasty-white cruisers
- Preparing for dengue and malarial zones and our rationale for skipping anti-malarials
Provisioning
Before we went cruising, stocking the pantry (and fridge, and chest freezer) was easy. We sourced much of our food from local producers. The gaps were filled in at the neighborhood grocery store. It turns out, everyday provisioning as a cruiser- without a car, in a foreign country, is a little more complicated. What it’s not, however, is a problem. It’s just different.
- A general approach to provisioning
- How to stow provisions, or, don’t pack the apples with the onions
- Do you really need that? Avoid over-provisioning
- When it’s time for long term provisioning
- Best provisions for our Pacific crossing
Transitioning into cruising
The cruising life has a different rhythm. For most people, it takes time to adjust to the cruising life. For our children, that time was about twenty minutes. For Jamie and me, it was much longer.
- Reflections after the first six months
- Vacation vs lifestyle
- Facing fears about cruising
- Unstructured doesn’t mean unoccupied
Everyday life
It may be a little harder to picture how some aspects of everyday life translate into cruising. Here’s a peek.
- Doing laundry on board
- Life has a new pace: a slow day in Barra de Navidad
- What do cruisers do all day?
- What do cruising kids do all day? Here’s a sample from our stay in San Blas, and another from Barra de Navidad, another from Vanuatu, and another from Papua New Guinea… there is no “typical”
Local Culture
Experiencing other cultures, to learn, share, find our differences and commonalities are one of the joys of cruising for our family. Here are a smattering of examples to give you a peek.
- Taking time in Papua New Guinea
- Trading in the western Pacific
- In a small port, you can’t be anonymous
- Language lessons in French Polynesia
- The kindness of strangers: Banda islands, Indonesia
- Becoming citizens of Ninigo
- Our brothers of the sea: aided by the Indonesian Navy
- Nonbelievers in a Muslim country
- How to cook yams, with cultural lessons on the side
Cost of cruising | Choosing a boat | Downsizing | What do you need? | Passage making | Homeschooling | Safety | Staying healthy | Provisioning | Transitioning into cruising | Everyday life | Local culture